We've been taught and conditioned to fear our problems, to avoid them because it's "hard" to deal with them. And we're habitually distracted by things that really don't matter to the point where there is no space to look the problem in the eye even if we mustered up the courage.
This is one of the biggest myths in life. That our problems, mistakes, and shadows are best dealt with through avoidance because they hold the very essence to what we need in order to get what we want.
The epiphany of understanding why something is challenging and double clicking down into why something is problematic is the root of the gift that is waiting to be brought to the light for integration into your soul.
Ignoring the root cause denies a vital part of what your soul wants and needs you to know in order to live your True Life.
In the True Life Roadmap, you can learn how to decipher the root script of your "problems" and better yet, how to remediate and transmute them so that you fully integrate everything radiant that this life is meant to be for you.
Until then, as crazy as it may sound, still yourself to accept the help that's disguised as pain.