Seeing myself apart from you is an illusion, as we are only different sides of the same coin. In some ways, it orchestrates differences and friction to make it easier to control us to direct our energies against each other.
Each angry voice may use different words but all have the undercurrent of victimization, yielding a unified undercurrent of powerlessness.
Wasting energy to maintain differences misdirects it from where it should be treasured...in one's truth, where complete power without domination resides and is capable of lifting one up to a different perspective where calm understanding prevails.
It is a place that raises one above all the "mental masturbation" distractions like superficial differences, busyness of things to do or things subject to loss,, or the fear of trying to strategically control the future.
I hope that we all find a way to knock over the glass bells that keep us apart from each other and lift the illusion that has been in place for ages.