In my work, I spend some time talking through duality, how one thing needs another to exist or is the flipside of something else.
When your "eyes" shift perspective from what makes things or people different, you glide into a realization that one thing only reflects something else. Whether it's by contrast or actual mirrored similarities, things are much more the same than we commonly think about them.
Then, there comes a point where none of this dualistic stuff even matters. It's a point where your eyes surpass this dualistic point of view. What's left from the sifting through of opinions, of the "this is that or that is this" is Y - O - U, the point of the universe that surpasses all of that.
The grace of YOU, the light and peace of each step you take in life, even when it doesn't seem like it, every breath of being unmoored in a storm of turmoil, is the path you leave behind that is always, always colored with your beautiful soul essence.
There is similarity in everything, like facets of a diamond, and the common thread woven through all of it is your beautiful soul's essence.